Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 36th wedding anniversary in countries around the world
As you celebrate your 36th wedding anniversary, there are no traditional items to symbolise another wonderful year of married life together. However, you could opt for a modern-day equivalent that is popularly associated with 36 years of married life: an exquisite gift made from bone china.
This soft-paste porcelain is stunning to look at and adds a regal and elegant touch when placed in your home. China is also noted for its strength and durability, thus symbolising a long-lasting marriage.
"Together Is a Beautiful Place To Be" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
Sea-glass edges catch the light like beach glass tumbled smooth by years together, framing that one photo they can't stop smiling at. A quiet, lovely way to mark how far they've come, side by side. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Pebble Love Couple" - Handmade Personalized Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
Framed unique, handmade design of two figure pebbles with a wine glass and a champagne bottle, made with pebbles and genuine sea glass. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain. This piece makes a wonderful gift for an Anniversary, Birthday, Mother’s Day etc. This product can be personalized with your own message. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"My Playlist Is Fire" - Crewneck Sweatshirt For Music Lovers [WNOAB]
For the anniversary date night when your playlist becomes the whole plan, this cozy crewneck says it best. Comfy, cheeky, and just a little smug about their taste in music, exactly how they like it. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Lost In A Fairytale" - Crewneck Sweatshirt For Book Lovers [WNOAB]
Soft cotton fleece with a cover-tucked-under-arm coziness, like a bookmark left mid-chapter. For the reader who still believes in happy endings, this sweatshirt makes curling up with a favorite story feel like celebrating their own. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
If you have been maintaining a tradition of choosing travel destinations associated with gifts that symbolise each year’s anniversary, you will no doubt be planning another special trip to mark 36 years together.
With china being the contemporary showpiece of 36th wedding anniversary celebrations, now would be a great time to visit the vast and enchanting country of China.
Take in such venerable sights as the Great Wall of China or the Dragon’s Teeth Mountains in Yangzhou, a town in Guangxi province (south-western China). It is a hugely popular place to visit, for both western and Chinese travellers, thanks to its sublime natural beauty.
Great love affairs start with champagne and end with tisane.” Quoted by: Honoré de Balzac
Lavender Tea Cup Bouquet
Porcelain tea cup filled with dried French lavender sprigs that transforms quiet moments into something more thoughtful and calm.
36th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and the Couple
Depending on your budget, a memorable and lasting gift would be a complete service of china, especially fitting for a couple who don’t have one yet and who entertain quite often. If they already have a service, additional matching or complementary pieces would also work particularly well.
For the couple who enjoy tea, a new bone china tea service that complements their living or dining room décor would be a much-appreciated and appropriate gift.
Alternatively, a bouquet of flowers always adds a stunning personal touch. Or you could book a lavish Chinese meal for just the two of you, or with friends and family.
"Cocktail Celebration" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
After another round of toast-clinking and shared stories, this sea glass frame gives that cocktail-hour memory a permanent home. Personalize it with names and dates, then let it hold the photo that reminds them why they raised their glasses in the first place. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Giraffe Love" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
“Giraffe Love” handmade personalised pebble picture frame! This frame shows two adorable gorgeous giraffes made with pebbles and hand drawn art. Hand made from sea glass and pebbles collected by the artist from the Mediterranean beaches of Southern Spain, the picture can be pesonalized with your own message. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Dog Dad: Like A Normal Dad But Cooler" - Crewneck Sweatshirt For Dog Lovers [WNOAB]
Soft crewneck fleece with a cheeky, oversized "cooler" claim across the chest, made for the dog dad who treats walks like bonding time. A cozy, funny nod to the guy who spoils his pup rotten, worth celebrating any anniversary. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Dog Mum" - Crewneck T-shirt For Dog Lovers [WNOAB]
Soft, sturdy cotton fleece holds up to countless walks and couch cuddles alike, making this crewneck an easy daily favourite. For the woman whose heart belongs to her pup, it says "Dog Mum" with pride and comfort combined. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT THE 36TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
Q: What is the 36th wedding anniversary called? A: The 36th wedding anniversary is popularly known as the Bone China Anniversary.
Q: What is the 36th wedding anniversary gemstone? A: The 36th wedding anniversary does not have a traditional gemstone for this year but a modern gift option is a cameo – a piece of jewellery, typically oval in shape, consisting of a portrait in profile carved in relief on a different-coloured background.
Q: What is the 36th wedding anniversary symbol? A: The symbol for a 36th wedding anniversary is bone china, noted for its strength and durability – and thus symbolising a long-lasting marriage.
Q: What is the 36th wedding anniversary colour? A: The 36th wedding anniversary does not have any specific colour associated with it, so you are free to choose any colour theme you wish for this year’s celebration.
Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 36th wedding anniversary? A: We do not have a traditional gift for a 36th wedding anniversary; however, the modern gift for this year is bone china. Select a gift that reflects his, her or the couple’s special interest – be it a figurine, fine bone china tea set or personalised photo mug.
Q: What is the 36th year anniversary flower? A: The 36th wedding anniversary flower is the tea rose, a garden rose with flowers that are typically pale yellow with a pink tinge and have a delicate scent said to resemble that of tea.
36th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
What can I buy my husband for our 36th wedding anniversary?
Bald Eagle Music Box [Amazon]
Hand-carved wooden music box features a majestic bald eagle rotating to "America the Beautiful" for peaceful, patriotic reflection.
Fun and quirky gifts are perfect for anniversary celebrations. If you cannot find exactly what you are looking for here, check out our other anniversary pages for hundreds more gift ideas.
MAX'IS Creations The Mug With A Hoop [Amazon]
This clever mug features a miniature basketball hoop, turning every coffee break into playful moments of fun.
We have more great anniversary gift suggestions below that would be ideal for your wife…
Wooden Jewelry Box Cherry [Amazon]
Cherry wood ages beautifully, developing character while keeping precious things safe. Practical storage meets quiet elegance in this thoughtful piece.
36th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and Parents
"Pottery Vase With Sea Glass Plant" - Personalized Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
"Pottery Vase With Sea Glass Plant" handmade personalised sea glass picture frame! This frame shows a colourful sea glass plant in a pottery vase, made with sea glass and hand drawn art. Our frames are handmade with love and care! Whether it's for a birthday, anniversary, engagement, wedding, or just simply to brighten up someone's day. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Best Friends Make Good Times" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
"Best Friends Make Good Times" handmade personalised sea glass and pebble picture frame! This frame shows two best friends having a good time, made with sea glass, pebbles and hand drawn art. Our frames are handmade with love and care! Whether it´s for a birthday, anniversary, engagement, wedding, or just simply to brighten up someone´s day. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Another Year Of Not Killing Each Other" - Crewneck Sweatshirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
Surviving another 365 days of dishes, snoring, and who-left-the-cap-off arguments deserves recognition. This cozy crewneck celebrates real marriage, the kind held together by love, stubbornness, and a shared sense of humor. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"We're Each Other's Karma" - Crewneck Sweatshirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
There's a quiet comfort in knowing someone was simply meant for you. This cozy crewneck says it plainly, a soft, wearable reminder that your love feels less like chance and more like fate. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
Soft, reassuring fabric transforms any outdoor moment into comfortable territory. Water rolls right off, leaving memories intact and cleanup effortless.
Why settle for another pair of mugs when you can give them an adventure? The Tinggly Happy Anniversary Experience Gift Box lets couples choose from thousands of experiences around the world, from romantic getaways and delicious food to exciting adventures and memorable days out. Whether they fancy trying something completely new or simply enjoying time together, this is an anniversary gift with plenty of fun built in and memories waiting to happen.
Forget socks, candles and anything that might end up gathering dust! The Tinggly Fun Together Experience Gift Box is all about getting out there and having some fun. Choose from more than 28,600 experiences across 130 countries, with options for 1 to 4 people. Whether it’s an adventure, a delicious experience or something completely unexpected, this is a gift made for good times, great laughs and memories worth keeping.
There's a particular thrill in opening an envelope with no fixed destination, just a promise of adventure to come. This Tinggly box hands your favourite couple that feeling, letting them choose from hundreds of experiences worldwide, from quiet countryside escapes to bucket-list thrills, whenever the mood (and the calendar) allows.
Some gifts are nice. This one is a bit harder to forget! The Tinggly Once in a Lifetime Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose one incredible experience from more than 9,500 options across 118 countries. From bucket-list adventures to unforgettable days out, it is the perfect excuse to try something spectacular. And because it can be enjoyed by up to four people, the memories can be shared too.
For couples who treat life as one long adventure list, this Tinggly box hands over the keys to hundreds of experiences worldwide, from hot air balloon rides to fine dining escapes. They choose the memory, the timing, the place. A wedding anniversary present that keeps unfolding long after the ribbon comes off.
Ready to take your taste buds on holiday? The Tinggly Taste the World Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose from more than 2,100 food and drink experiences across 77 countries. From tempting tastings to delicious culinary adventures, there’s plenty to whet the appetite. Choose an experience for yourself or share it with up to four people. A tasty gift for food lovers who believe the best memories often come with something delicious on the side.
Finding a gift for her just got a whole lot easier! The Tinggly Perfect for Her Gift Box lets her choose one fabulous experience from more than 22,000 options across 127 countries. Whether she fancies an adventure, a relaxing treat, a delicious day out or something completely different, she gets to pick her favourite. It can be enjoyed solo or shared with up to four people, making it a gift she’ll actually love.
What do you get for the man who has everything? Something he can actually go out and enjoy! The Tinggly Perfect for Him Gift Box opens the door to more than 21,900 experiences across 128 countries. From adrenaline-fuelled adventures and great days out to food, travel and something completely unexpected, he gets to choose his favourite. With options for up to four people, it’s a gift made for fun, freedom and memorable experiences.
Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
Luxury spa day for two
Country pursuits (day at the races, clay pigeon shooting, etc.)
Jewellery
The traditional 36th wedding anniversary gemstone is cameo.
Earrings
Pendants
Rings
Necklace
Tie Pin
Cufflinks
Something Different & Unique
For those with a healthy budget, or ready to break their travel “piggy bank”, plan that once-in-a-lifetime trip to China.
If you are looking for something a little closer to home, reserve a table at an up-market tea-room and savour en elegant afternoon tea together (with bone china service, of course).
Visit the Wedgwood Museum (now known as the V&A Collection at World of Wedgwood) in Barlaston, Stoke-on-Trent.
Sign up for pottery classes and create your own dining set.
If you are a numbers person, these are the key details… On the 36th anniversary of your marriage you would have been married for 13,140 days or 315,360 hours or 18,921,600 minutes.
However, no matter how many years you have been together (now decades, in your case), each anniversary a couple celebrate being together is a poignant milestone. And it always warrants being recognised in grand style – and enjoyed thoroughly.