Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 31st wedding anniversary in countries around the world…
Although the 31stwedding anniversary may seem less important than the milestone of your previous anniversary, it should really be celebrated in full. Most couples have had a big celebration the year before and so the 31st wedding anniversary is a fantastic opportunity to celebrate in a more romantic setting with just the two of you.
There are no traditional gifts for this occasion but the modern gift for this anniversary is a timepiece. Timepieces as a gift are a strong symbol of your ever-lasting love and symbolise the journey you have both taken from the past when you first met to the future and where you are heading.
"Love Birds on a Branch" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
Introducing "Love Birds on a Branch", our sweet, heartfelt, handcrafted sea glass picture frame. Made with genuine sea glass and pebbles from the beaches of the Mediterranean Sea, it features a charming design of two love birds grasping a heart-shaped balloon and standing on a wooden branch. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Pottery Vase With Sea Glass Plant" - Personalized Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
"Pottery Vase With Sea Glass Plant" handmade personalised sea glass picture frame! This frame shows a colourful sea glass plant in a pottery vase, made with sea glass and hand drawn art. Our frames are handmade with love and care! Whether it's for a birthday, anniversary, engagement, wedding, or just simply to brighten up someone's day. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Two Weirdos, One Subscription Plan" - Crewneck Sweatshirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
That crewneck's soft, broken-in feel makes it an instant favorite, and the shared subscription joke on the front sums up marriage better than any card could. A cozy, funny nod to two odd people who found each other and stayed. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
For couples who plan the itinerary and then abandon it the moment something more interesting shows up, this cozy crewneck says it best. Comfy, honest, and ready for whatever detour their next anniversary trip takes. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
A weekend away at a couple’s hotel is always a great way to celebrate your 31st wedding anniversary. Whether it is a nice spa hotel in the countryside or your own secluded rental, getting that time away from the hustle and bustle of your daily lives to enjoy your anniversary and switch off is crucial for a long lasting marriage.
You can opt for a dinner at a luxury restaurant or keep the budget smaller by cooking your other half their favourite meal.
White flowers are associated with the 31st wedding anniversary and white roses are always a lovely touch as a gift to your partner on this special day.
I seem to have loved you in numberless forms, numberless times, in life after life, in age after age, forever.” Quoted by: Rabindranath Tagore
Rose and Lily Bouquet - From you Flowers
Elegant bouquet featuring beautiful trachelium, Asiatic lilies and roses in a stylish cylinder container with pretty ribbon accent.
31st Wedding Anniversary Gift for Him, Her… and the Couple
Choosing a 31st wedding anniversary gift is largely up to your imagination, as there aren’t any common gemstones, flowers or traditional symbols associated with this year.
That means you can buy your husband or wife something truly special that you know they will absolutely love. Displaying your mutual appreciation through giving is extremely personal, and it says so much about the long-standing love you have for each other.
Even though no specific flowers are associated with the 31st wedding anniversary, if your partner loves roses, lilies, daffodils or even orchids, why not buy a bouquet of these in white?
Fresh flowers look and smell amazing, and lift the atmosphere of any room. The way they breathe and are full of life and presence really makes a statement in any living room or kitchen space. Plus, they will be a great talking point for admiring guests if you host a party at home.
"Cocktail Celebration" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
After another round of toast-clinking and shared stories, this sea glass frame gives that cocktail-hour memory a permanent home. Personalize it with names and dates, then let it hold the photo that reminds them why they raised their glasses in the first place. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Andalusian Charm" - Handmade Gift Box Bundle For Her [WNOAB]
Andalucía captures the heart with its charm and soul. Picture whitewashed villages perched on hillsides, colorful ceramics, olive groves, and warm Mediterranean breezes. Its stunning coastline boasts golden beaches kissed by turquoise waves, perfect for sun-soaked daydreams. Step into the charming Andalucia region with our handmade gift box, and enjoy a little piece of our home! Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Dog Mum" - Crewneck T-shirt For Dog Lovers [WNOAB]
Soft, sturdy cotton fleece holds up to countless walks and couch cuddles alike, making this crewneck an easy daily favourite. For the woman whose heart belongs to her pup, it says "Dog Mum" with pride and comfort combined. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Dog Dad: Like A Normal Dad But Cooler" - Crewneck Sweatshirt For Dog Lovers [WNOAB]
Soft crewneck fleece with a cheeky, oversized "cooler" claim across the chest, made for the dog dad who treats walks like bonding time. A cozy, funny nod to the guy who spoils his pup rotten, worth celebrating any anniversary. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
COMMON QUESTIONS ABOUT THE 31st WEDDING ANNIVERSARY
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary called? A: Although the 31st wedding anniversary does not have a popular symbolic name, we link it with the traditional flower gift of white flowers.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary gemstone? A: The 31st wedding anniversary stone is ebony. This is not known as a gemstone so black onyx could be used as a substitute for jewellery gifts.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary symbol? A: The 31st wedding anniversary does not have a traditional symbol, but the modern gift is a watch – a symbol of time.
Q: What is the 31st wedding anniversary colour? A: The 31st wedding anniversary colour is not specific, so choose your own favourite colours if you’re having a party.
Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 31st wedding anniversary? A: The modern gift for a 31st wedding anniversary is a timepiece – the gift of time and, if chosen wisely, an investment for the future.
Q: What is the 31st year anniversary flower? A: The 31st wedding anniversary flower, although not specific, can include white flowers such as roses, freesias and other blooms.
31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
What can I buy my husband for our 31st wedding anniversary?
The modern gift for the 31st wedding anniversary is a timepiece which opens the door to an array of wonderful gifts. If your husband likes watches, then indulge him with a stunning wristwatch from any number of luxury watch designers. Alternatively, if he is into health and fitness then there are numerous smartwatches that are able to track any exercise, steps or activity he does with GPS accuracy. Check out some of our gift suggestions below.
Galaxy Watch 6 Classic 43mm Smartwatch [Amazon]
A thoughtful blend of classic elegance and modern wellness features that gently reminds you to move, breathe, and stay connected.
Virgin's flying experiences lift recipients into pure blue sky adventure, commanding helicopters, gliders, or vintage aircraft beyond earthbound routine.
Apart from timepieces for this anniversary gift, you could also opt for a gift that incorporates his interests. Here are a few other great suggestions…
Barnett's Cookies Gourmet Hazelnut Wafers [Amazon]
Crisp wafers layered with rich hazelnut cream deliver satisfying crunch and smooth, nutty sweetness in every indulgent bite.
This handcrafted ebony station transforms nightly phone charging into something intentional, creating order from wood that feels substantial and lasting.
What should I buy my wife on our 31st wedding anniversary?
Ebony gemstones are the gemstone gift associated with the 31st wedding anniversary. These gemstones are black crystals and found in all sorts of jewellery so why not treat your wife to a beautiful, handcrafted ring or pendant to mark the special occasion.
Still looking for gift inspiration? Check out the list below.
Galaxy Watch 6 44mm Smartwatch [Amazon]
Their eyes widen at the sleek display and premium feel. Technology that tracks workouts, answers messages, and genuinely enhances daily life.
31st Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Parents… and Friends
Ebony is known as a rare and precious material because ebony trees are extremely slow growing and evergreen making it a perfect representation of a long and success full marriage. Many species of Ebony are now protected due to certain species becoming extinct.
Consider the modern gift for this year and buy them a timepiece gift for your parents 31st wedding anniversary or an antique cabinet with Ebony inlays. Of course you do not always have to stick with traditional gifts, a gourmet foodie treat or new wine glasses could be the perfect anniversary gift.
For more gift ideas, browse through the gifts below.
"Self Care Essentials" - Handmade Gift Box Bundle For Her [WNOAB]
A pampering gift box for a well-deserved treat: a personalised handmade card, vegan dark chocolate, a vanilla and amber candle, chamomile bath salt, a rose and lavender essential oil roll-on, a handmade strawberry body scrub, and a customised sea glass and shell hairbrush. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
Another year of choosing each other again deserves marking well. This handmade box bundle brings together thoughtful, tactile keepsakes he'll actually use, wrapped up with the kind of care that says you noticed the little things. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"To My Favourite Forever" - Crewneck T-shirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
Another year of choosing each other, still the easiest decision either of you makes. This soft crewneck says it plainly: "To My Favourite Forever," a cozy little reminder worn close, meant for lazy mornings and long marriages alike. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Another Year Of Not Killing Each Other" - Ceramic Mug Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
That first sip of coffee, mug in hand, reading a joke that basically sums up marriage. It's the kind of gag gift that gets a real laugh, not a polite one, because surviving another year together (without homicide) deserves recognition. Sturdy ceramic, bold print, built for daily use and the occasional dramatic sigh. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
Picture the bottle emerging perfectly chilled, beading with condensation. This thoughtful piece transforms any wine ritual into something more intentional.
The usual images that a timepiece conjures up is one of watches and clocks but a unique gift for your parents in law for their 31st wedding anniversary is a sundial. A nice idea is to add a timeline inscription that marks some of the memorable milestones the happy couple have had over the years.
Check out some of our gift suggestions below.
Silent Non-Ticking Wooden Wall Clock [Amazon]
This silent timekeeper brings natural beauty to any wall while banishing disruptive ticking, creating a peaceful backdrop for life.
Why settle for another pair of mugs when you can give them an adventure? The Tinggly Happy Anniversary Experience Gift Box lets couples choose from thousands of experiences around the world, from romantic getaways and delicious food to exciting adventures and memorable days out. Whether they fancy trying something completely new or simply enjoying time together, this is an anniversary gift with plenty of fun built in and memories waiting to happen.
Forget socks, candles and anything that might end up gathering dust! The Tinggly Fun Together Experience Gift Box is all about getting out there and having some fun. Choose from more than 28,600 experiences across 130 countries, with options for 1 to 4 people. Whether it’s an adventure, a delicious experience or something completely unexpected, this is a gift made for good times, great laughs and memories worth keeping.
There's a particular thrill in opening an envelope with no fixed destination, just a promise of adventure to come. This Tinggly box hands your favourite couple that feeling, letting them choose from hundreds of experiences worldwide, from quiet countryside escapes to bucket-list thrills, whenever the mood (and the calendar) allows.
Some gifts are nice. This one is a bit harder to forget! The Tinggly Once in a Lifetime Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose one incredible experience from more than 9,500 options across 118 countries. From bucket-list adventures to unforgettable days out, it is the perfect excuse to try something spectacular. And because it can be enjoyed by up to four people, the memories can be shared too.
For couples who treat life as one long adventure list, this Tinggly box hands over the keys to hundreds of experiences worldwide, from hot air balloon rides to fine dining escapes. They choose the memory, the timing, the place. A wedding anniversary present that keeps unfolding long after the ribbon comes off.
Ready to take your taste buds on holiday? The Tinggly Taste the World Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose from more than 2,100 food and drink experiences across 77 countries. From tempting tastings to delicious culinary adventures, there’s plenty to whet the appetite. Choose an experience for yourself or share it with up to four people. A tasty gift for food lovers who believe the best memories often come with something delicious on the side.
Finding a gift for her just got a whole lot easier! The Tinggly Perfect for Her Gift Box lets her choose one fabulous experience from more than 22,000 options across 127 countries. Whether she fancies an adventure, a relaxing treat, a delicious day out or something completely different, she gets to pick her favourite. It can be enjoyed solo or shared with up to four people, making it a gift she’ll actually love.
What do you get for the man who has everything? Something he can actually go out and enjoy! The Tinggly Perfect for Him Gift Box opens the door to more than 21,900 experiences across 128 countries. From adrenaline-fuelled adventures and great days out to food, travel and something completely unexpected, he gets to choose his favourite. With options for up to four people, it’s a gift made for fun, freedom and memorable experiences.
Travel and activity gift vouchers (from Red Letter Days)
Adventure days
Food and drink (afternoon tea for two)
Escape to the country (many locations to choose from)
Luxury spa day for two
Country house getaway (relaxing weekend for two)
Pleasure flights
Jewellery
A modern-day 31st wedding anniversary gemstone is ebony.
Earrings
Pendants
Rings
Necklace
Tie Pin
Cufflinks
Something Different & Unique
Visit one of the world’s most famous clocks: Big Ben at the Palace of Westminster in London.
Book a trip to Geneva in Switzerland – a venerable capital of both classic and contemporary watchmaking.
Buy an antique timepiece as a new statement objet d’art for your living room.
Turn back the clock at a concert by one of your favourite 1980s bands – many are still going strong.
This never fails when wanting to share your anniversary with friends and family: host a celebration party with all the trimmings at home, or in a local restaurant where someone else can take care of all the work and all you have to do is enjoy some unbridled fun with your partner and guests.
As always, the most important thing is to enjoy celebrating another year – an impressive 31 in all now – with the one you love.
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