Below is a list of both traditional and modern gift materials, as well as classic flower and gemstone symbols, which mark a couple’s 20th wedding anniversary in countries around the world…
Reaching your 20th wedding anniversary is a huge milestone, two whole decades spent as a married couple. For some couples, your son or daughter may be tying the knot soon, so this is an extra special milestone anniversary. The 20th wedding anniversary is often referred to as the ‘china anniversary’.
The term ‘china’ comes from its country of origin and is recognised world over as a beautiful, hard-wearing yet fragile product. The qualities of china serve as a symbol of the nature of relationships and marriage, ‘handle with care’ and it will withstand the test of time.
Give them a gift that says "forever & always" in the most magical way! This one-of-a-kind art piece is handmade with genuine sea glass and pebbles from the beautiful beaches of Southern Spain. It's the perfect, personalized way to celebrate your love story. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
“We Are Better Together” – Personalized Sea Glass Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
The “We Are Better Together” sea glass frame with a unique, handmade design of birds and a sweet quote. All made with genuine sea glass. The sea glass and pebbles are collected by the artist from the beautiful Mediterranean beaches in Southern Spain. This artwork can be personalized with your own message. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Two Decades, Same Circus" - Crewneck T-shirt For 20th Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
Twenty years in, they've earned the right to laugh about it. This crewneck says what every long-married couple knows deep down: it's chaos, it's love, and somehow you're both still in the ring together. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Built To Last" - Crewneck T-shirt For 20th Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
Twenty years in, and they're still going strong. This crewneck says it plainly: some things are built to last, and their marriage is proof, comfortable enough to wear while telling everyone exactly that. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
If you’re looking for a surprise gift for your husband or wife, a day’s pottery course is a wonderfully unique day out whilst also providing a cute keepsake gift, totally personalized to show your love for each other. It is not only a thoughtful gift, but you will be sure to have a lot of fun and maybe pick up a new hobby to do together.
If you are the less creative type, then why not consider purchasing some new dinnerware. After all, the china set on your wedding registry 20 years ago is possibly due an update! If you do decide to buy some new dinnerware, then why not host a dinner for friends and family to mark your anniversary.
The best thing about china is it can be as cheap or luxury as you wish, there is something to suit every budget.
If you are looking for a truly unusual way to celebrate your anniversary then perhaps this is the time to finally go ahead with long-time plans for a romantic trip to China.
She put out her hand and touched his forearm, as she would have touched some piece of porcelain or sculpture, just for the sheer animal pleasure of feeling its shape and curve beneath her fingertips.” Quoted by: Rosamunde Pilcher (The Shell Seekers)
Sunflower Garden Bouquet - From You Flowers
Bright yellow sunflowers with white daisies create a cheerful farmhouse arrangement that brings sunny, natural joy to any space.
20th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and the Couple
The 20th wedding anniversary gemstone is emerald, while the modern alternative is platinum. Both emerald and platinum jewellery make gorgeous gifts and are a lovely alternative to the more traditional gift of china.
"Family Of Birds" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
Discover our charming framed bird family design, crafted with genuine sea glass from the Mediterranean. This piece, featuring a heartfelt family quote, is a perfect addition to your living room or a thoughtful gift for loved ones. Each creation, handpicked from Southern Spain's beaches, brings a touch of nature's beauty into your home. This gift can be personalized with your own message. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
The "Cheers!" handmade personalised sea glass frame. This frame shows a delicious bottle of champagne and two glasses made with sea glass and hand drawn art. Our frames are handmade with love and care. Whether it´s for a birthday, anniversary, engagement, wedding, or just simply to brighten up someone´s day, there is a perfect frame for everyone. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Another Year, Same Love" - Crewneck T-shirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
There's something reassuring about pulling on a shirt that just gets it: the years pass, the love doesn't. This crewneck says "Another Year, Same Love" plainly and warmly, perfect for lazy Sunday mornings or celebrating another trip around the sun together. Soft, comfortable, and quietly sentimental, it's the kind of gift that feels like a hug from someone who knows your story. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Aging Like Fine Wine" - Ceramic Mug Birthday Gift
A glossy ceramic mug printed with "Aging Like Fine Wine," the kind of morning coffee humour that makes someone grin before they've even had a sip. A cheeky nod to another year well-lived, best gifted with a wink. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
Common Questions About the 20th Wedding Anniversary
Q: What is the 20th wedding anniversary called? A: The 20th wedding anniversary is known as the China Anniversary.
Q: What is the 20th wedding anniversary gemstone? A: The 20th wedding anniversary gemstone is the Emerald.
Q: What is the 20th wedding anniversary symbol? A: The 20th wedding anniversary is symbolised by Bone China.
Q: What is the 20th wedding anniversary colour? A: The colour synonymous with the 20th wedding anniversary would be emerald green, just like the gem for this anniversary.
Q: What are the traditional and modern gifts for a 20th wedding anniversary? A: The traditional gift for the 20th wedding anniversary is China, and the modern gift is Platinum jewellery.
Q: What is the 20th year anniversary flower? A: The classic flower for 20th wedding anniversary celebrations is the Aster, a unique flower with meanings of love and wisdom, which is ideal for your 20th wedding anniversary.
20th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him
What can I buy my husband for our 20th wedding anniversary?
Silver Customized Football Helmet Necklace [Amazon]
Sterling silver football helmet necklace with customizable team logo or personal engraving. Thoughtfully celebrates passion in any style.
20th Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Him, Her… and Parents
"Together Is a Beautiful Place To Be" - Personalized Sea Glass Picture Frame Gift [WNOAB]
Sea-glass edges catch the light like beach glass tumbled smooth by years together, framing that one photo they can't stop smiling at. A quiet, lovely way to mark how far they've come, side by side. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Love Letters" - Date Night Box For Couples [WNOAB]
This date night box is perfect for couples looking to enjoy a fun and romantic night in to reignite the romance. Put pen to paper, and let your love letters spark connection and sweet moments together. Our gift boxes are handmade with love and care! Whether it´s for a birthday, anniversary, engagement, wedding, or just simply to brighten up someone´s day! Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Two Weirdos, One Subscription Plan" - Crewneck Sweatshirt Anniversary Gift [WNOAB]
That crewneck's soft, broken-in feel makes it an instant favorite, and the shared subscription joke on the front sums up marriage better than any card could. A cozy, funny nod to two odd people who found each other and stayed. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
"Another Year Of Love And Poor Decisions" - Crewneck T-shirt Gift For Couples [WNOAB]
Soft crewneck cotton stamped with a bold, funny truth: another year of love and poor decisions survived together. A cozy, laughter-worthy nod to marriage's messiest, most wonderful chapters. Buy from “We’re NOT On A Break”
A beautifully crafted commemorative plate that transforms shared memories into something tangible to display and treasure, honoring their continuing love story.
Why settle for another pair of mugs when you can give them an adventure? The Tinggly Happy Anniversary Experience Gift Box lets couples choose from thousands of experiences around the world, from romantic getaways and delicious food to exciting adventures and memorable days out. Whether they fancy trying something completely new or simply enjoying time together, this is an anniversary gift with plenty of fun built in and memories waiting to happen.
Forget socks, candles and anything that might end up gathering dust! The Tinggly Fun Together Experience Gift Box is all about getting out there and having some fun. Choose from more than 28,600 experiences across 130 countries, with options for 1 to 4 people. Whether it’s an adventure, a delicious experience or something completely unexpected, this is a gift made for good times, great laughs and memories worth keeping.
There's a particular thrill in opening an envelope with no fixed destination, just a promise of adventure to come. This Tinggly box hands your favourite couple that feeling, letting them choose from hundreds of experiences worldwide, from quiet countryside escapes to bucket-list thrills, whenever the mood (and the calendar) allows.
Some gifts are nice. This one is a bit harder to forget! The Tinggly Once in a Lifetime Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose one incredible experience from more than 9,500 options across 118 countries. From bucket-list adventures to unforgettable days out, it is the perfect excuse to try something spectacular. And because it can be enjoyed by up to four people, the memories can be shared too.
For couples who treat life as one long adventure list, this Tinggly box hands over the keys to hundreds of experiences worldwide, from hot air balloon rides to fine dining escapes. They choose the memory, the timing, the place. A wedding anniversary present that keeps unfolding long after the ribbon comes off.
Ready to take your taste buds on holiday? The Tinggly Taste the World Gift Box lets the lucky recipient choose from more than 2,100 food and drink experiences across 77 countries. From tempting tastings to delicious culinary adventures, there’s plenty to whet the appetite. Choose an experience for yourself or share it with up to four people. A tasty gift for food lovers who believe the best memories often come with something delicious on the side.
Finding a gift for her just got a whole lot easier! The Tinggly Perfect for Her Gift Box lets her choose one fabulous experience from more than 22,000 options across 127 countries. Whether she fancies an adventure, a relaxing treat, a delicious day out or something completely different, she gets to pick her favourite. It can be enjoyed solo or shared with up to four people, making it a gift she’ll actually love.
What do you get for the man who has everything? Something he can actually go out and enjoy! The Tinggly Perfect for Him Gift Box opens the door to more than 21,900 experiences across 128 countries. From adrenaline-fuelled adventures and great days out to food, travel and something completely unexpected, he gets to choose his favourite. With options for up to four people, it’s a gift made for fun, freedom and memorable experiences.
Travel and activity gift vouchers (from Red Letter Days)
China Town in London for a meal, and show or theatre afterwards
Sussex vineyard coach tour with lunch and wine tasting for two
Luxury spa day for two
Adventure sports days (for the active couple or family)
Jewellery
The traditional 20th wedding anniversary gemstone is emerald.
Earrings
Pendants
Rings
Necklace
Tie Pin
Cufflinks
Something Different & Unique
Visit China and marvel at its venerable history and culture.
Buy a new set of quality china, and celebrate in style.
Take in a Tower Bridge exhibition followed by dim sums and cocktails at Ping Pong.
Arrange a Belmond British Pullman “Golden Age of Travel” trip for two from London.
Host a celebration party at home or in a favourite local Chinese restaurant.
The 20th year of marriage marks one of the major milestone anniversaries. As you celebrate this epic 20th wedding anniversary, reflect on that commitment to a lifetime together which you both made two decades ago.
However you decide to celebrate 20 years together, have a wonderfully meaningful and pleasurable day – with plenty of cherished memories to take forward another decade.